The elevator eventually rose, and the hallway camera picked her up as she walked straight to my door with an authority that suggested she had rehearsed this many times.

She tried a key and it failed, and then she tried a second one that also failed, causing her jaw to tighten as she realized I had indeed changed the locks without telling her.

She removed a thin plastic card from her folder, and the head mover stepped back and said, “Ma’am, if you do not have a working key, we are not authorized to enter this residence.”

“I have a right to be here because the owner is incapacitated, and my husband and I are now handling all of her affairs,” Simone said, her voice caught clearly by the microphone.

The mover shook his head and said he was not going to force a door for an “estate move” where the owner was still alive, and he walked away toward the elevator.

Simone offered the other two movers three thousand dollars in cash to stay, and they hesitated before agreeing to help her work the plastic card into the lock mechanism.

The door finally swung open, and I felt a peculiar sense of violation watching strangers cross my threshold and flick on the lights of my private living room.